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Welcome to the
#SLAA Online Group

of Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
on StarLink-IRC.Org IRC

 

Tools of Recovery:

This Recovery Tools section is divided into five major pages:

A list of 47 Qualities of a Relationship

by Grey, a member (written June 16, 2003)

(not SLAA conference approved)

Grey and her fiancé wrote out a list of qualities in their relationship that they desire and have permitted us to share that first list.
  1. Love
  2. Communication
  3. Trust
  4. Sharing — upsets
  5. Supportive — emotional
  6. Partnership (deciding together)
  7. Humor — Fun
  8. Sharing the floor
  9. Flexibility
  10. Looking for the best in each other
  11. Caring
  12. Forgiveness
  13. Spirituality
  14. Nothing matters but everything is important
  15. Follow our dreams
  16. Make sure each other is O.K.
  17. Pay attention
  18. Believe
  19. Faith in each other
  20. Embrace our fears
  21. Peaceful
  22. Freedom
  23. Responsible
  24. Self-care
  25. Courageous
  26. Loyal — no gossip about each other
  27. No seeking advice on the other person
  28. No withholding
  29. Work it out and return to love
  30. No manipulation — let go of control
  31. Being straightforward
  32. Understanding
  33. Proactive, not reactive
  34. Take care of each other
  35. Ask for needs to be met
  36. No pretending
  37. Be sensitive — no meanness; no bully
  38. Nurture
  39. Cherish
  40. Honor
  41. Respect
  42. Passion
  43. Sensual
  44. Love-making
  45. Compassion
  46. Listening
  47. Beauty
Blessings to you all!